So we’ve all been there……a stressful day at work and you desperately NEED chocolate!  Stress eating!

Or a stressful afternoon with the children and you NEED biscuits.  

Or a stressful weekend with the in-laws(!) and you NEED junk food!!

Sometimes it can be pretty much impossible to stop those urges to go crazy on junk, especially when there has been something to trigger that urge….anything which seems out of your control, anything which creates stress/anxiety or perhaps the feelings of overwhelm

 

 

Sometimes it can be pretty much impossible to stop those urges to go crazy on junk, especially when there has been something to trigger that urge….anything which seems out of your control, anything which creates stress/anxiety or perhaps the feelings of overwhelm

I was a master at uni on turning to junk food when I was under pressure and felt overwhelmed, even though at times when I felt good and OK, I loved eating the perceived ‘healthy foods’ So here’s what I’ve learnt over the years about this.  Surprisingly this has got nothing to do with lack of willpower and somehow not being strong enough to resist the urges.

1. Food Calms Us

This is fact.  At the time of feeling stressed our body knows that there is something wrong and is frantically searching for a way to calm and relax you. Food is a great solution (albeit it temporarily).  You see when we eat, serotonin is released which the building block to the happy hormone amino acid called Tryptophan.  It literally calms us down.  Our amazing body knows this so in affect ‘makes us’ want to eat

2. Stress eating needs sugar

Whenever we are stressed or overwhelmed or anxious, we are actually wired to crave sugar! (did you know that??) So out come the ‘stress biscuits’ and the ‘overwhelm chocolate’ and the ‘out of control cake’. It’s almost as if we ahem lost control of our mind and no matter how hard we try we can’t resist the urge and the need to eat such things.  You haven’t lost your mind BUT no matter how hard you try to override the chemicals and physiological changes in your body, you’ll never win.  The sugary treats will.

3. Stress affects brain function

So carrying on from the point above, when we are stressed we often feel like we can’t think straight or clearly.  Actually that’s true, we can’t.  Stress hormones (adrenaline and cortisol) affect our thought process so much, especially if it is prolonged stress, that often our actions and behaviours seem ‘out of control.’  That would explain why on the one hand you know that eating that huge plate of deep fried chicken might not be what your body wants, but you want it anyway. The stress takes over.

So what can you do about it?

1. Focus on the real issue

Stress eating is not about the food. It’s not your lack of willpower or your lack of discipline, it’s a real and physiological response to something else.  It’s really worth you investing a little bit of self awareness to find out and explore what’s going on underneath the surface of your desire to eat.

These questions can help.

If it wasn’t about the food, what might it be about?

What do I want to avoid right now?

What do I really need right now if it isn’t about the food?

2. Relax

RELAX! And I mean that metaphorically, cut yourself some slack and be compassionate with yourself that sometimes chocolate really is the answer and there’s nothing wrong with that (once in a while) but also literally.  If stress is a HUGE trigger for you to turn to food then how can you start working on changes your response to stress?  The less triggered you are by stress, the less likely you’ll NEED food and the more likely you’ll be able to move through that stressful period feeling empowered and calm.

Some ideas

Relaxation – how do you like to relax? Have you tried relaxation recordings or mediation? Quieting your mind is a great way to learn to relax

Activity/Movement – moving your body releases the same happy hormone which food does but obviously also helps your body become fitter and stronger

Pause your thoughts – often we create our own stress by other thinking and over analysing. STOP! If you find yourself jumping on the catastrophe train of ‘what if this happens’ or ‘what if that happens’ ask yourself, ‘WHAT IS MY REALITY…?’ and focus on the here and now

Learn to be grounded and in the moment – very much like the tip above how can you learn to start living in the moment and become more grounded and less in your head? This was a BIG thing for me as at the peak of my emotional issue with food and myself, I NEVER lived in the moment. I was forever thinking about tomorrow, what I had to do, the future, all the things on my ‘to do’ list.  I still have moments when I go off in the future but I’ve learnt to bring myself back to NOW. Feel your feet on the floor, breath in relaxation and breath our stress and learn to trust that everything will be ok.  You are exactly where you are supposed to be right now.

3. Food as your only pleasure?

It’s no surprise that when we are stressed and overwhelmed, there is often very little time for US and what we want to do. So honestly, ask yourself, what other things do you have and do in you life right now, which you enjoy and bring you pleasure??

Food should be enjoyable and it should be pleasurable, but when eating a bar of chocolate and a cake, sat in your car in-between meetings, is the only snapshot of pleasure you get in your day, it’s easy to see what food becomes such as issue.

If sat on the sofa after a busy, hectic and stressful day at work eating your favourite snacks is also the only thing you have to look forward to, then something is off balance.

Find other ways to soothe and calm yourself other than reaching for the chocolate and chips. Eating when not physically hungry is not the solution to this in the long term

4. Get comfortable with being uncomfortable

We stress eat as we feel the emotion inside us.  We turn to food as a way of coping with how we feel. We stress eat as we want to change how we feel in the moment. Now the problem with this approach is that it actually doesn’t do anything. That uncomfortable feeling of overwhelm and stress will still be there after you have eaten all of the chocolate, all the chips and all of their crisps.

So what can you do about it? I highly encourage you to start learning to become comfortable with being uncomfortable. As an emotional human being it is impossible to avoid our feelings and our emotions, yet sadly so many of us try to do exactly that.

Now it is easier said than done but learning to feel your emotions is so important. None of us want to feel stressed, angry, overwhelmed or frustrated but by allowing ourselves to feel how we really feel and acknowledge those emotions, allows those emotions to pass through and to be released.  The source of those emotions will probably not change, however, your response to them will and eventually you will learn that you do not need to numb those feelings anymore by turning to food and stress eating.

So there you go my lovely, my 4 steps non how to deal with stress eating

If you truly want to find freedom with food, stop all those obsessive thoughts about food and eating in your head and actually start enjoying life to it’s fullest potential then I hope you take on board (and put into action!) the reasons above.

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Remember-

You can have a life where food is no longer in control.

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Love Rachel xox

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